My son, A woman who makes life very difficult for you shouldn't have a place or space in your life in the first place. Relationship is not a do or die affair, and she's not anything special. She's just another woman. Many more exist! The reason she acts that way and torments you is because you've unconsciously held her on a pedastal and acted as though she's the next thing after oxygen and highly irreplaceable in your life. Never give any woman that impression about herself. It is a scarcity mentality to do so. No woman is irreplaceable in your life except your mother. If that woman you're idolizing dies today, won't your life still go on? Why then act as though she's your entire world? No woman is worth simping over. A woman is only useful to a man as long as she's useful to herself and understands the role and duty of a woman in the life of a man abiding by it. If not, show her the door. Don't let a financial liability steal your peace and disrupt your joy in the name of love. Toss her back to the street. There are many more beautiful, intelligent, industrious, better, and submissive women out there waiting, praying, hoping and willing to take her place. Don't be a simp, you're a man! Be wise!